Opportunity Knocked, Or Tweeted, and I Answered: My Patient 2 Patient Education Project Experience

Opportunities. Every day we are faced with opportunities; the opportunity for change, to learn, to help make a difference in this world, to make choices. Even just waking up is an opportunity in that you get the chance to do another day. Late last fall, I was given a major opportunity to represent the child-adolescent patient voice at an IBD (Inflammatory Bowel Disease) conference called "Patient 2 Patient Education Project", or P2PEP, for when that name sounds way long! Of course, I immediately grabbed for this amazing opportunity. To be the first pediatric patient that the University of Michigan IBD Program has invited to speak at this event, alongside other well known IBD advocates in the social media world, was a great honor.

Events like P2PEP are so important to our IBD community. These events are a chance for patients to come together to see that they're not alone, that their struggles are often similar to others. Like how my struggles as a 14 year old with Crohn's, can be just as similar to the 60 year old living with the disease. It's an opportunity to look around and see that you truly are not alone on your journey.

P2PEP is a chance to learn from both patients and experienced doctors. No one talks about our disease. It's almost impossible to find what some people call a "socially acceptable time" to discuss our symptoms with our friends, families, strangers in the elevator, etc. Here's how I see that conversation going:

Friend: How's it goin'?
Me: Well last night, I couldn't make it to the toilet and ended up coating the floors with vomit. As if that wasn't enough, my ostomy bag let loose and sent poop everywhere in a massive code brown incident.
Friend: *crickets*

Unfortunately, for a lot of IBD patients, these are common statements. There is no good and acceptable time to talk about what happens with our body functions. Our disease is one of silent suffering when it's not "right" to talk about it. Yet the only way we're going to educate other people, and find a cure for this disease is if we tell our story. If we shout our stories out loud, and keep shouting, awareness will grow. P2PEP gives us an opportunity to come together to give voice to what is important to us as patients, to address the things that might not always get covered in the often-too-quick medical appointments, like partnering with your medical team, how to get the most out of your doctor visits, and more about the other treatments you likely have not heard about.

The great thing about P2PEP is that it's an event for everyone regardless of age. You might not think that's a big thing, but for teens like me, I think we often feel left out of big medical conferences that aren't specific to the pediatric population. The topics discussed are ones that are actually chosen alongside the patients, to hopefully cover what is important to them and what they want to learn. And that means even us pediatric patients. For example, this year I presented with Dr. Neef on the topic of Diet, Growth and Puberty in IBD, and how those things can be particularly challenging for us as patients. Another talk focused on the idea of transitioning from Pediatric to Adult Care, something that sooner or later, us pediatric patients are going to be forced to do. Which is kind of scary when you aren't prepared for it. So P2PEP really does try to touch on it all within a few short, crazy hours, to give a quick "highlights" of what's going on in the IBD world and why this matters to patients.

I had a great time meeting other doctors, fellow health advocates, and patients, it all came to a close way too quickly, like it was just a dream. As exhausting as the day was for me physically, I left feeling inspired by others, and that is always a great feeling to part such awesome company with. It certainly was a dream of an opportunity.